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Posted on November 20, 2010.
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, what should I do?

I am a gay 22 years old and my boyfriend is 33 years (born outside of Canada). We've been together for almost a year. Last Saturday, I grabbed his iPhone to look for something on Wikipedia while I was in the toilet. My thumb hit the text message area by chance and saw the start of a brief something suggestive message from someone named David, I'd never met before.

I am shocked and started to read several of his text messages, I saw him about meeting people for dinners, someone call "hey sexy" and he replied "cute", and even someone one saying they wanted to come to his house for sleeping and kissing. Tell him when he was traveling to Montreal in August "to meet me when we did last night" for that David, whom I had seen the text innocently in front of me. It wasn't just what David, there was another guy named "Dave" and "Dimitry" other names I had never heard before.
And all of them said things like "I miss you" and it makes me mad because I live 45 minutes to school and that's the thing I told him the most when I went over week.

I confronted it and said that this is not how it looks, and he was innocent flirtation, but I do not know if I can trust him or believe him. He refused to go through the text messages to explain them to me.

I do not know what to do. I love him very much and I want what he says to be true, but I can feel what really hurt me hurt inside. He returned for the week now and I'm trying to see how to solve this problem.

Should I try to read the phone again to get a better idea of what he did? Should I trust him and try to forget what I've done the last three days? I need advice.

Dump his sorry ***!
you'll find another man!
oncve course you dumped Hiom see his reaction,
if he comes back, you want, give him a second chance, not acting he was cheating.
Do you know why he cheats?
Do you guys have ... "Right time?

It sounds like your boyfriend cheating on you. Let him speak, and get out. If he does not want to talk or if you can not get out, drop it. I know you like it, but you are mistaken. Not allowed.

Honey, you do not want to end up sick as I did. If you can not trust him, it must draw a line - just - for your health. There is a giant red flag as well, sorry, that's how he did not respect your feelings and you just brushed off when you face him. If it were really true, it would have been good to all your feelings and experiences to reassure you. He acted like a guilty person who uses only the other, and I'm sorry dear, but you're one of them. Do not end up sick from someone who does not treat you the way you simply deserve.

I think if your instinct tells you they cheated, than he cheated. We usually know something is wrong before we have concrete evidence. Personally, I do not trust him that he "was not what he looked like." I want to go through these texts, numbers, and call the people to whom he was communicating with. I am to trust and believe in your boyfriend, but engage in an activity that makes him look shifty, and I think you have to fight with sneaky sneaky. Talk to these people, then factor what they say, with what he said and maybe from there you can decide what "truth" is. You can expect to lie, and you can expect people to play with his lie, but somewhere in there, there must be enough information for you to decide what to do with him. Good luck. I know it feels like crap ... but you have to stay.

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